“Nurse” is one of many titles we moms wear. Of course, not all of us have medical training, but we are the first to hold our child and attempt to soothe their aches away. Some symptoms call for immediate professional help, but for the common cold or ear ache, there are many ways we can help our child at home.

Last week, I reviewed a wonderful resources for us moms, Mommy Diagnostics. Another favorite is Herbal Drugstore. There are also numerous online resources that you can access for free to make sure the remedy you are using is safe and effective.

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Bulk Herb Store:

The Bulk Herb Store makes me drool. Almost literally. Shoshanna runs the store and provides a wealth of information about herbs: what they help, who can take them and recommendations for using them. The Research Aid page lists dozens of common ailments and the herbs that have been shown to help them. Each herb is linked to a page that gives more complete information about its safety and use. Also, for each ailment, Shoshanna links to the specific pages in books she recommends that contain more information.

PubMed Health:

PubMed Health is the online directory of the U.S. National Library of Medicine. It contains a list of diseases and the common symptoms that can help you figure out exactly what you or your child is facing and be better prepared to speak with a professional if necessary. PubMed Health also hosts numerous studies on drug, remedies and diseases, that [nerds like me] find fascinating.

Mayo Clinic:

Mayo Clinic offers a directory of expert overviews of disease symptoms, causes and treatments. My favorite part is their overview of home remedies that have been shown to work along with ones that might cause problems .

Wikipedia:

So, I may have lost all credibility here, but hang with me! Usually the overview on Wikipedia is good, but what I really love about it is the resources at the bottom. Often, Wikipedia links to great studies and reports that you can go read. In law school, my husband’s friend used the Wikipedia trick. When the professor asked for a case, instead of thumbing through a thousand page casebook, he looked it up on Wikipedia. In the footnotes at the bottom, was the full name of the case. Much faster! The same trick works for herbal remedies!

What about you? Do you have a favorite online resource for researching natural remedies? 

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What is it about boys and mud? Mud seems to draw my little guy like a magnet.

It all start innocently enough. Will found a stick and a large puddle and started stirring. Knowing how much pigs love mud, he called them. “Here piggy! Here’s mud. Come play.”

I turned my back.

No pigs came so Will decided to enjoy the mud himself.

When it produces smiles like that, even mud is a Finer Thing! 

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Now that we’ve defined distance learning (otherwise known as a non-traditional college route) and discussed its pros and cons, it’s time to get practical.

Distance learning operates under the assumption that you don’t have to sit in a classroom in order to learn. You can study anywhere, anytime and then test your knowledge using standardized tests. If you score well enough, you “pass” and earn credit.

Some students may want to complete their entire degree through distance learning. (I’ll share how in coming weeks.) However, you don’t have to take an all-or-nothing approach. Many colleges allow you to test out of at least some courses and have credit applied.

For example, here is a list from OTC (a local college where I grew up) of the tests OTC considers equivalents of their courses and what score you need to have the test count towards your credit. Search your school’s database or talk to an advisor to find what tests they accept.

Two Major Types of Credit-Earning Tests

 

College Level Examination Program (CLEP) exams:

CLEP exams are the most popular way to test out of entry-level college courses. For a 90 minute test that costs just $77*, you can earn between 3 and 12 credit hours! Nearly 3000 accredited colleges nation-wide award credit for at least some CLEP exams. (Check here to see if your college accepts CLEPs.)

CLEP exams cover 33 subjects including biology, Spanish, calculus and American literature. With the exception of foreign language and composition CLEP exams, the exams are made up of multiple choice questions.

Taking a CLEP exam allows you to choose your course material, save money, and gain your degree more quickly.

There are limitations to CLEPs: they don’t cover all areas and colleges generally only award lower-level credit for them.

Dantes Subject Standardized Tests (DSST/Dantes):

These tests were originally designed for the military, but civilians can now take them. Like CLEPs, Dantes exams cost a fraction of earning credit traditionally. Dantes exams are $80* for a 3 credit-hour exam and many of the test are even awarded upper-level credit! Nearly 2000 colleges across the country accept some Dantes exams for credit. (Search here to see if your college awards credit.)

Dantes exams cover 38 subjects including “Human Resource Management,” “Principle of Statistics,” and “The Rise and Fall of Soviet Russia.”

These exams are more difficult than CLEPs, but are multiple choice. Though Dantes require studious preparation, you can study at your own pace with the materials you choose.

(* Most testing facilities charge a $15-20 fee for administering the test.)

Coming up…

Next week I’ll share the wonderful resources we used to prepare for these exams. Then, we’ll take a look at three colleges that let you obtain a degree entirely through examination. I’ll wrap it up with answers to common questions.
Have a question? Email or comment and I’ll do my best to answer it!  

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I’m on a journey to eliminate brain clutter, as I shared yesterday. Brain clutter comes in many forms. One of the biggest challenges to a clear brain in the 21st century is technological “clutter.”

Researches have raised concern that constant media input may shorten attention spans and may rewire the brain. Eliminating technological brain clutter is vital (and so difficult!)

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21 ways to de-clutter the brain, continued:

(Read part 1 of 21 Ways to Clear out the Brain Clutter)

  1. Stop checking Facebook, Twitter or email constantly! Smart phones serve a great purpose, but checking email when you should be doing laundry simply clutters the brain. As several dear friends encourage, put the phone down and concentrate!
  2. If it will take less than two minutes, answer emails immediately. Reading the email once and answering it right away, leaves your brain clear to move on to the next task. The same rules applies to comments, articles, etc.
  3. Set aside time each week (or day or month) to answer the emails that require a longer reply.
  4. Keep an empty inbox. I learned this trick from Blogging with Amy and it has revolutionized my mentality towards email! Emails no longer overwhelm me. [Check out her step by step instructions for how to have an empty inbox in Gmail while still keeping all your messages safely archived. Plus, learn how to install a cool "send and archive" feature.]
  5. Limit phone calls. Set aside times to make long calls to friends or family. Don’t just pick up the phone to chat when you have other things you should be doing.
  6. But, if you have an item that needs to be taken care of (and it will only take two minutes) make that call! Stop procrastinating.
  7. Think before you turn to the internet. The internet teams with ideas and advice. Sometimes though, I tend to mindlessly turn to the internet rather than thinking about the problem and possible remedies first. Don’t get me wrong. I love the internet, but it can’t replace your brain!
  8. Embrace times of “technological quiet.” It’s the 21st century and we are bombarded with “noise”  on every side all day long. Set aside time to turn off the computer, cell phones, music or tv.
…to be continued next week.
What about you? How do you navigate technology without cluttering your brain? 

 

We all know what a cluttered home looks like: stuff lies scattered about and we stumble over the piles of laundry and stub our toes on Duplos.

I hate clutter.

Brain clutter is like house clutter. Brain clutter dampens our focus and distracts us. Brain clutter is all the unfinished matters we need to attend to that distract us while we’re working on a task.

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Ever been washing the dishes and remembered, “Oh, I forgot to pay the water bill.” So, before you forget, you leave the dishes and go pay the water bill. While online, you remember an email you read this morning that just has to get answered….

Am I the only one?

Recently, I read Blogging with Amy’s post about how to keep your inbox clean. That post finally turned the brain clutter light-bulb on. I used to read an email, then think about it while I did laundry, then read it again (sometimes days or weeks later) before finally getting around to responding. My response was generally late and I wasted so much mental energy!

I teach my children, “play with your toys, then put them away before you get something else out.”

You and I may not play with toys like a toddler, but the same principle still applies. Finish the task at hand.  

My brain is still cluttered at times, but it is getting tidier and I feel so much more productive! Would you like to join my journey to de-clutter the brain and keep it cleared? 

Over the next couple of weeks I’m going to post 21 practical tips to help eliminate brain clutter. Not all tips will be practical for everyone, but I hope we all walk away encouraged!

  1. Start each day recognizing Whose you are. Jumping into the day feet first may seem more logical, but as Christians, we are not our own. Acknowledge God’s sovereignty over you and your plans. As Passionate Homemaking encourages, start your day by getting dressed in your spiritual clothes.
  2. Identify the tasks you tend to procrastinate on, then do them early in the day! For me that means get dressed before breakfast. Otherwise, the day picks up speed and before I know it, it’s ten and I’m still in my pajamas… which for some (rather logical) reason, makes my brain feel cluttered and behind. Get the tasks you dread out of the way first; it helps clear your mind for the rest of the day!
Do you struggle with brain clutter? How do you eliminate it?

Last week I shared one of my goals for this year: to assemble a natural remedy closet (or apothecary, as Little Natural Cottage calls it!) An integral part of building this collection is gathering resources to help us wisely administer our natural remedies.

Mommy Diagnostics, by Shonda Parker, is a practical field guide for moms, written from a Christian perspective.The book is divided into three main parts: a lengthy, informative introduction to health and wellness; detailed recommendations for treating minor illnesses at home; and resources for further study.

First, what I didn’t like about the book. It was not well edited (at least my 1998 edition!) There were typos in every chapter and sometimes I had to read a sentence three times to understand what Shonda meant. Perhaps I shouldn’t be harsh since I’m sure most of my blog posts contain grammatical errors, BUT if you’re going to publish a book, edit it. Then edit it again. Then pay someone to edit it for you.

Aside from that fairly significant flaw, I loved Mommy Diagnostics.

Mommy Diagnostics recognizes the importance of modern medicine while maintaining that nutrition and herbs should be our first line of defense. Shonda’s “Ladder Approach to Health™” argues that when we get sick we should start with the least aggressive form of intervention, nutrition and lifestyle, and work up to the most aggressive, surgery. [Unless, of course, the illness is acute and requires urgent care.] Each progressive ring of the intervention ladder poses higher risks of falling.

Throughout her book, Shonda stresses the importance of keeping thorough medical records for our families. Keeping careful track of the symptoms of a sickness will help us diagnose the problem quickly and correctly. When we know exactly what we are dealing with, choosing a course of action is much simpler.

Shonda covers dozens of fairly common illnesses we are likely to face. After a thorough explanation of the common symptoms for each illness, Shonda includes numerous treatment options. It is obvious she has researched the herbs thoroughly and she encourages us to do the same.

For example, if your child comes down with an ear infection, pull down your go-to books and check what herbs or remedies they recommend. Check several sources to make sure that any possible side effects are covered. If any of the herbs pose even a possibility of bad side effects, research them further before using.

My favorite part was near the end of the book, in a section titled “Raw Food Diets and Veganism.” Health food fads have a way of creeping into the Church. (After all, Adam and Eve abstained from meat and lived to nearly 1000.) There is obviously nothing wrong with eating vegetables. But with veganism or any other diet, we must go back to the Bible. There we see that Jesus ate meat and His disciples ate meat. As she puts it, “We are not in the Garden. We will not be recreating the Garden just because we eat what was eaten there.”

Though we should be wise in what we feed our families, sin came into the world and brought sickness and death. We cannot make our children immortal through perfect nutrition.

Overall, I came away from Mommy Diagnostics encouraged and better equipped to handle minor illnesses. I think it makes a great addition to My Apothecary. However, at the moment, the only used copies I could find online were fairly expensive. Herbal Drugstore is another great reference book that has much cheaper copies available on Amazon.

Speaking of cheap, I was so excited to find one of the books Shonda recommends, Food: Your Miracle Medicine, at the thrift store this weekend!

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Does it ever feel that life gets so busy that before you’ve had a chance to stop and take a breath, another week has crept by and you have been going from event to event with no time to pause? The calendar fills up, day to day needs press upon us and it’s so easy to loose focus.

This evening I was feeling overwhelmed and very, very tired (many thanks, darling baby)! I stepped outside just for a minute to gaze at the stars.

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I’m guest posting today over at These Five of Mine Plus Two. Head over to my friend Kasey’s lovely blog to finish reading this post. While you’re there, check out her Handful of Heart link up! 

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Last week we talked about making sure college is the right choice. Today we’re going to talk about the pros and cons of a non-traditional education.

Pros of non-traditional college:

A non-traditional degree saves money:

The cost of college has skyrocketed in the past decades. After you adjust for inflation, the total cost per year of attending a Public College was $6,320 in 1981. Last year it was $14,870. (See U.S. Department of Education stats)

That’s just shy of $60,000 over the course of four years.

It cost us under $3,000 each for our Bachelor’s degrees.

A non-traditional degree saves time:

No more sitting through long lectures (while chatting on Facebook, like so many students do.) Instead you can listen to lectures while jogging, driving or doing the dishes. Then take tests that you’ve scheduled.

Want to finish sooner than four years? It’s much easier this way. You can test out of multiple classes in a single day.

A non-traditional degree is flexible:

You can study at your own pace, on your own time. Work or family obligations prevent many people from going to school full time. This allows you to earn credit when you have time. You can jam it all in to a year, like Josh. Or, you can work on it a bit here and there, like me.

Cons of a non-traditional college:

It requires self-motivation:

Unlike a college classroom, you’re the one setting the pace. You have to be proactive and study a subject and then schedule the exam.

You miss out on possible connections:

Studying on your own cuts down on distractions, but limits your circle of acquaintances. You also miss out on Career Services or other career placement programs that a brick-n-mortar college offers.

Traditional scholarships aren’t available:

Most scholarships are for traditional colleges and can’t be applied towards CLEP credit (unless things have changed since we got ours.)

Conclusion:

Whether or not you want to get your degree the traditional way, I think all students could benefit from obtaining at least some of their Gen Ed classes non-traditionally, through examination.

Up next: CLEP and Dantes exams (and how to use them!) 

linked up at Works for Me Wednesday and Frugal Friday

“Master, What About Me?”

Comparing. We humans tend to be good at it.

Sometimes comparing is simply jealousy for a nicer home or cuter wardrobe. There is another kind of comparing though: the comparing that looks at our sister’s story or our sister’s method and gets discouraged.

  • She runs her home more smoothly I do.
  • Her children are doing so much better in school than mine.
  • Look at all the people that were blessed through her life!
  • She stretches her money farther than I do.
  • Why has she been blessed with a much greater ministry opportunity?

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Yesterday, I was reading Passionate Homemaking, a blog I’ve loved for years, and Lindsey shared about the new direction she believes God is leading her blog in. Immediately, I started doubting and second-guessing, “Is what I’m blogging about as worthwhile? Should I follow her?”

Then the story about the disciple Peter came to mind. Jesus had just told Peter that he would have to suffer for His sake and Peter turns, looks at the disciple John and asks, “Master, what about him?”

Jesus never answers the question.

John was later imprisoned, but Jesus doesn’t tell Peter that. Instead He says, “…What is that to you? You follow Me!” (John 21:24 ESV)

Few of us have, or likely ever will, experiences physical persecution. The question, “Master, what about her?” is still dangerously common though.

It’s as easy to compare now as it was then.

Jesus’ answer “You follow Me!” rings just as true. God calls each of us to different paths. Just like in parenting, we need to distinguish between the methods and principles of women of God.

God lays down principles in His Word. We must strive to follow those principles. But God also gives so much freedom in the methods we use to follow those principles!

Just because someone else is called to blog about certain things, or teaches her children a certain way, or knits amazingly, or cleans her house a certain way, or [insert Mrs. Jones' wonderful talent here], doesn’t mean I need to too.

Reading about other women’s methods should inspire us as we seek to carry out the principles in God’s Word. However, we need to distinguish between the principles that we should follow and the methods that we may follow.

Likewise, we should be inspired as we witness God write a friend’s story. Yet we must remember that as the Master Storyteller, God writes each story differently and this is a glorious, beautiful thing! 

linked up at Finer Things Friday and Teach Me Tuesday

My Cleaning Schedule

For five years, I cleaned my home on Monday morning. It worked. After a busy weekend, I looked forward to my Monday morning cleaning routine.

Then something happened. I’m guessing it was a combo of starting kindergarten with Rose, potty training Will and adding a sweet little baby to the mix. The layers of dust stood thick and somehow Monday always seemed to slip through my fingers.

My cleaning schedule had to change.

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I tried assigning a chore to each day, but invariably got busy every single Thursday (when I was supposed to dust) and the layers of dust got thicker.

I’ve finally found a system that works for me in this season of life.

One of the glorious things about being a home maker is getting to experiment and discover what is best for your home. But just in case you’re interested, here’s what has been working really well for me the past few months.

Divide up the non-daily chores into 6-8 approximately 20 minute tasks. (20 minutes naturally being a loose paraphrase for “45 minutes of cleaning with lots of interruptions.”) Mine are:

  • Clean the bathroom
  • Vacuum van (if necessary) and dust
  • Iron at least five items
  • Clean the bathroom
  • Wash kitchen floor
  • One mini deep cleaning task (clean out fridge, wash windows, etc)
  • Iron at least five items

Each home’s cleaning needs vary. As you can see, “clean the bathroom” and “iron” are duplicated because they need to be done more often. Other things like taking out the trash and vacuuming I just do as needed (which means very often.) Dishes and laundry I do daily.

Write each task on a card and keep them somewhere handy and visible. Mine are above my kitchen sink. When the job is finished, move the chore card to the back.

Having each chore written clearly and staring me in the face, encourages me actually get it done. Washing the floor is not my favorite job and I have been known to put it off indefinitely, but this helps me just do it!

Ideally, I would do one task each weekday and and two on Saturday. It doesn’t always happen (actually, I’m not sure it’s ever happened!) Some days I do no cleaning jobs. Some days three.

At least this way the bathroom stays relatively clean, Josh isn’t scrambling Monday morning for an ironed shirt and you can’t write your name in the dust.

What’s your cleaning routine? 

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